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Private Coaching with Margaret Wagner
Learn to live life from a place of pleasure
Session fee: $95 for a :50 session
In person session available at Westport office. Phone sessions also offered.

Desire more directed work? I offer private coaching sessions for women and men on relationships and living in your pleasure. My mission is to create intimate and connected long term relationships with yourself and those around you. Living a life of pleasure is a choice. And one you have to be brave enough to make every moment of every day. It's also hard work and can take some serious rewiring. I use all the tools I've learned and created from my workshops over the years and apply them to your specific needs. These are very active session, so be prepared to work. I will challenge and make some outrageous suggestions. It's about getting you out of your box and making you accountable for every aspect of the live you have chosen to live.

Be accountable. I believe we have active control oover our lives and our loves. Things don't happen to us. They happen for us. Yes, even the scary, hurtful bits. And if you can't take those on, own them, and turn them into something -- I believe -- you stop living. This is most true in relationships. Playing the victim in relationships serves no one, least of all you. Affairs, divorces, simple disconnections happen. Owning it, understanding what you want, and then acting on your desires to get it allows you to find your power and live in your pleasure. That's what I will teach you.

Be present. Going through the motions serves no one. Living a sensual life means being present and seeing, feeling, smelling, tasting, and hearing everything. It means your body is so in tune to what's around you and its individual vibration that you can sense it -- and you stop to take it in.

On January 15th, I closed my boutique in Westport. I was happy, but petrified with where my journey would take me next. I had my classes and my personal clients, but the shop was a big part of me and my persona. This was a big change, but upon its arrival, it was filled with fear and anxiety. The next day, I was walking down my pavement driveway to close the gate. As I looked down, I saw a caterpillar. A caterpillar in January. It was 20 degrees outside, and it was alive. I wanted to bring it in and take care of it but realized it was not my job, so I took him to a nearby tree and covered him lightly with leaves and bark. Upon journaling that night, I realized that caterpillar was there to tell/confirm my metamorphosis, although to exactly what yet, I wasn't sure. Was this a message or just a random accident? Two days later, I walked into my outdoor cellar and right by the front door was another caterpillar -- one of those black and red furry ones. Alive. In January. Confirmation.

What's the point of this story. Being present and taking in every aspect of what's around you helps to guide your truth. This is what I'm talking about.

Be in your pleasure. Living a life of pleasure means every action is brought forward from a place of light: From housework to board meetings to sex. Anything done from a place of dread or annoyance will give that same feeling right back to you. Flirt with every circumstance. Smile at every challenge. Jump high at every obstacle. These might seem like whimsical thoughts. They're not. They are ways of being. And ways for you to take on your day with a level of joy and fulfillment you never imagined. Sounds easy, but in practice, it's one of the hardest skills to master. But like most things that are hard, the pay off is big.

To be clear, I am not a therapist -- and if you need one, I've got a list to recommend. I don't look backward. I only look forward. It's my belief that you need to get into agreement with where you are at in this present moment and move you forward from there. One way or another you got yourself at Point B, regardless of whether you realized or take responsibility for it or not. There are no accidents. There are no victims. There is only your power and the desire to live in the present and from a place of pleasure. Then, and only then, can you live a sensual life.