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Part of having the conversation is being able to talk about in a way that makes your comfortable. Take a look at the glossary and see what might work for you. It's all about being able to communicate. Hope these new ways of thinking work for you.

Play = Making love.
Replace it as the term for talking about sex. Because sex should be playful. It's our adult fun. So give it the love and innocence that it really deserves.

Self pleasure = Masturbation.
I use self pleasure because that's exactly what it is. When you get out of the clinical terms and step away from the colloquialisms you give acts like this the respect and place they deserve in your life.

Girlfriend = The whole of the female anatomy.
We all know there are thousands of words for this part of the body. And if you're from CT then there's no word at all, it's a head cock with a downward look. But this is your girlfriend. Your best girlfriend, whether you are the owner of the equipment or the one who gets to play with it.

Flirting = Finding pleasure in the company that you're in.
Not a new word, but a slightly new twist on what it's all about. You can flirt with a 9 year old or a 90 year old, it's about focusing on creating pleasure at anytime, anywhere.

Sensuality = Your inner core.
It's the drive you have to connect with another person. The desire to find that connection that creates the spark from your boyfriend to your boss to your friend. Think of it as True North on your inner compass. It will always give you your direction if you really take a reading.